Nobody's Perfect

It's true. Nobody, I repeat: NOBODY is perfect. Everybody has flaws, vices, things they are ashamed of.
We only see others as perfect because we only see what we want to see. We only want to see what we don't have, so we can want it and want it and want it and perhaps never get it. But we forget to look at ourselves. Not in the mirror. But in the eyes of others. People often see someone completely different that you think you are. Sometimes that's good, sometimes that's bad. But it gives you a clear picture of how things are.
O told me the other day she'd met one of her ex-classmates. The girl told her she'd always looked up to O, because she seemed to have such a presence that boys kept avoiding her out of awe an dgirls didn't dare to come up to her in fear of being "too simple for her to be friends". O on the other hand had had serious doubts in herself at the time because she thought people didn't like her, that she was ugly and not interesting enough. Turns out she was so focused on being interesting that with time people thought her arrogant and turned away from her completely. So because she tried to change, she lost what she wanted to have.
Don't try to change yourself by force. I don't mean covering pimples with make up or dressing up differently. I mean you shouldn't try to be someone else. Don't try to impersonate anyone, don't try pretending you're somebody else; it won't get you far, and in the end, when the truth comes out, you'll just be in for a nasty bit of surprise and regret.
Once again: Nobody is perfect. The only person in the world who can fulfill the demands of being perfect is the guy/gal who's meant for you, and you only. They are perfect. Not in their being, looks, or wealth. They are perfect for you. And that's the only type of perfect anybody can be.
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Okay, this is going to be more random than ever, but........ oh Happy Day!!! Time to hop out of the sentimental socks, it's dancing-a-jig-without-knowing-how-to-but-not-caring-coz-you're-fucking-happy-time! The big news is.............................. D is fucking coming here in winter! Hell yeah!!! okay, it's only 80% sure, but still, it's fucking awesoooomeeee!!!!!! :D

bye ^^

xx /P.