Okay so my response didn't fit into the comments thingy, so same here.
I absolutely agree with point N°1. It's the macho in a man that rebels against a girl asking him out instead of it being the other way round. And he doesn't, he takes her for granted and hurts her.
Point N°2: Ahem. Well. I think I sense an allusion to a certain douche we both know.
Besides that, yes, of course it's important to consider that it's always better to have one the guy instead of five that aren't. We all want to be loved... *sentimental moment*
So anyway, I feel like being a sucky friend and a bitch so I'll forward this message to LR and tell her to not blame me for her lacking ability of attracting individuals of the opposite sex.
What I actually wanted to say in my previous post is i.a. that I was a bit irritated by LR. I am not to blame for her not having had a boyfriend until now.
Either she's jealous and makes really really upsetting remarks about AP to make herself feel better and thinks she's funny and doesn't understand when I tell her to shut up about that already - seriously what kind of friend is she? - or she's sad and I have to comfort her with "don't worry you just haven't found the right one yet"-phrases. So, what to do? Maybe she was just jealous. I dunno.
/P.
Actually it's not just S who's like that towards me.. it's most boys. Partially my fault, sure (people tend to say I have myself to blame for it), but also boys I've never talked to before talk to me in a way they wouldn't talk to other girls in.
ReplyDeleteAnd it's kinda hard to follow when I don't know the initials except L, but look at her. She's adorable, has that coy cuteness, she just needs to be discovered. Besides, she sends off signals she's unaware of and that's really confusing for boys I guess, with that cute smile under the fringe.