i've wanted to say this for some time now

Let's be serious. If gayness was forbidden, it wouldn't exist. And what is "forbidden", anyway? It's just what a majority of people decided on many many years ago, and only because a minority of people dictated the idea into their heads. That's the truth.
Many may say that two people of the same sex feeling sexually and emotionally attracted to each other are "not normal", freaks, social outcasts. Why? Because they love each other? Because they feel connected and want to spend the rest of their lives together? Aren't these emotions the same as the ones heterosexual people feel? You can't deny that. Homosexuality is inborn. It's fucking natural.
I believe that everybody in this world has someone predestined for them. Whether they actually find that person at some point in their lives is another question, but there is this special person somewhere out there, for everyone. Something like a soul mate, the second half, however you want to call it. Mostly it's someone from the opposite sex. Sometimes they happen to be of the same gender. And then, so what? They're not hurting anyone, they're not terrorizing the community, they're not trying to force anybody to be homosexual too. So what the fuck is your problem, dear homophobs? Tell me. I want to understand.

And then, another thing. Let's assume you're a male individual. You have a friend whom you've know for, say, six years. One day this friend tells you that he's realized that he feels attracted to men. At this moment, there is one thing that you absolutely are not allowed to do: don't feel grossed out. The only thing that has changed is that you know one more thing about your friend, nothing more. They're still the same fucking person. They're still the same person you've known for six years, believe me, and the fact that they're gay doesn't change a thing. And please don't feel anxious around them because you think they'll pounce on you. Mostly you're not their type anyway. The same goes for girls.


To make my point clear, there are 5 golden rules:

1. Homosexuality is not contagious. You won't become gay just because you spend a lot of time with a gay person.

2. Being friends with a homosexual person doesn't automatically make you gay too in the eyes of society. It's like with religions. If your friend is Jewish, it doesn't mean you're Jewish too.

3. If a friend comes out of the closet, don't freak out. Instead, feel honored, because they put enough trust in you to tell you such a thing.

4. Don't act different around your homosexual friend, they're still the same person. Acting different just makes things awkward and difficult for both sides.

5. Love is love. There is no such thing as differentiation in love, not even in terms of gender/sexuality.

/P.