I should be a prophet or something. It happens as I said every time.
I only wish my premonitions came earlier, before the beginning of a relationship. That way, I wouldn't get hurt so much.
Once again, I would like to say: never make promises you don't intend to keep. It's better to stay silent and surprise with unpromised things than to disappoint with unfulfilled expectations. And if you make promises you do intend to keep, make sure you're actually capable of keeping them. There are cases when just the thought doesn't count after all. Be reasonable and stay with both feet on the ground, no matter how passionate your feelings are - an at least somewhat realistic approach to your relationship can spare both sides from unnecessary pain. Don't let your partner hope for more than you can give them - words, when in love, are powerful, powerful little things.
I was ready to spend the rest of my life with him. I probably still am, foolish as it may be.
But, as they say: when love is not madness, it is not love.
And I feel like I must be the maddest of them all...
/P.
And no, we still haven't broken up. Not officially at least. But he told me some things a few days ago and it looks like I'm a clairvoyant after all.
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